Formal Updos – Tips to Consider for Wedding Updos

What to do with your hair on your wedding day is a big decision. Should you have your hair up in one of the many styles of wedding updos or long and flowing? You should begin looking for a style that suits you as soon as you know you are getting married, if not before. One of the most important things to keep in mind is that you should have a style that you will feel not only comfortable in but also a style that will make you feel beautiful.

There are many styles of wedding updos to choose from that range from very formal to a more casual, yet elegant look. The shape of your face, the theme of your wedding, and the type of veil, headdress or accessories you will be wearing will all play a part in your decision. Make sure you let your hairstylist know what you will be wearing in your hair by bringing all your hair accessories you will be using with you to your appointment.

Many brides have wedding updos that they are able to wear one way with the veil and then with a couple of quick easy changes they can do themselves, have a separate look for the wedding reception. Be sure to ask you hairstylist to show you how to remove the veil without ruining your hair style.

Months before the wedding, you should be taking extra good care of your hair. That means no teaching yourself how to "do it yourself" with coloring, perms or chemical straightening of your own hair, leave it to the professionals. You don't want a chemical treatment gone wrong a few months before your wedding to make it impossible to have the style you want on your big day. You also do not want to have your hair partially colored if you are choosing an updo, the striping or two toned effect may not be the look you are looking for.

So where do you find the perfect hair style for your wedding day? You can check with your stylist, look in the books at the salon, look at bride magazines, or even search for "wedding updos" or "wedding hairstyles" on the internet for some great examples. If you are on a tight budget and are looking for areas to cut costs, you may want to consider learning how to put your own hair in an updo. Even if you would never consider cutting your own hair, learning how to put up your hair in an updo is much easier and less dangerous than cutting it. Ebooks you can download online, like "The Top Twenty Five Formal Updos for Hair You Can Do" will show you exactly how to do your own updos and styles. The important point is to leave yourself enough time to choose the style you will be happy with on your wedding day.

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Quick and Easy Wedding Thank You Notes

Well your wedding day has come and gone, you're back from your honeymoon and settling in to your new married life. Now it's time to write those all those thank you notes to all the people that came to and made your wedding day such a success. Wow, talk about a lot of thank you notes! Writing all those thank you notes doesn't have to be an overwhelming chore. Here are some simple steps to get them done in no time.

1. Get organized
2. Write the notes
3. Get them in the Mail

Getting Organized and Ready to Write

Writing thank you notes actually begins before the wedding. As you receive wedding gifts it's a good idea to record what the gift was and who gave it to you. Other useful information to collect and have in the same spot is the address of the giver. I always suggest you record this information in a notebook especially dedicated for this purpose, or in a section of your wedding planning notebook. If you did not keep good records, I strongly suggested that you make a list now of everything you can remember receiving and from who. After you make the list, go through your guest list again, sometimes seeing someone's name will help remind you of a gift you may have forgotten, and don't forget people who were not invited to the ceremony but kindly sent a gift anyway. Also, make sure you include people who gave you the gift of their time and energy and helped make your day special.

Once you know who you have to write to, you will need something to write on. You may have ordered the thank you notes when you ordered your wedding invitations or you may have to get some now. The note cards do not have to be fancy, they do not even have to be "Thank You" notes, they could be nice blank cards or even some nice stationary. The important part is that you have something to write on and envelopes to mail them in.

Another thing you need to have will be stamps and return address labels with your correct address on them. You can address them ahead of time but I would suggest waiting to put the stamps on until you are ready to mail them.

What to Write

Sitting down to write all of those thank you notes out at one time is a daunting task, so why make it hard on yourself. Set a goal to write 10 to 20 thank you notes at a time and within a few days you can have them all done.

When writing thank you notes for your wedding, there are some simple things to remember. First you need to keep in mind that the giver had to put some thought into choosing what to give you, whether it is something you like or not. In most cases, you probably like the item you received and writing the thank you note from you heart is the easiest way to come up with what to say. In other cases, you may not know what to say to Aunt Matilda who knitted you those matching bright orange sweaters with the pink flowers, or something similar. The best way to handle thanking someone for something you don't actually care for is to thank them for their thoughtfulness.

Here is a short list of things to include when writing thank you notes:

• Name the gift in your note
• Say how you will use it
• Personalize the note by referring to your relationship with the sender.
  

For example you might say something like:

"Dear Aunt Matilda,

Thank you so much for the matching sweaters. We can see the love you put into knitting them for us and we will think of you often this winter when it gets cold enough to wear them. We were so pleased you were able to find someone to take care of your cats while you were here and really appreciate you making the trip to share our wedding day with us.

Love,

Bert and Sally"

Get the Thank You Notes in the Mail

All that should be left is to put a stamp on the envelopes and put them in the mail. For gifts you received before the wedding, thank you notes should be sent out as soon as possible. For gifts you received at your wedding reception, the proper wedding etiquette is within 6 to 8 weeks of the wedding but if it is never too late to send a thank you note.

Once you have some of the thank you notes completed, you can either mail them as you complete them or if you finish writing them in a timely manner, you could mail them all at once.

A Checklist For Planning Your Special Wedding

So you're getting married! Now it's time to start your life as a couple. And prior to that anticipated big day, you, both the bride and groom have so many decisions to make and wedding-related tasks to finish.

Preparing for your wedding day need not be stressful. On the other hand, it should be fun and exciting. And to do this, start off by putting together a wedding planner checklist with a timetable.

Here is a quick list of wedding-related tasks as well as an estimate of when the activities should be done follows. It presents tips and ideas to keep you organized and help you think of all the things that you must take into consideration in the course of planning for your big day. Of course, these are mere suggestions. All activities and schedules are still up to the couple to decide on depending on their priorities.

When You Become Engaged

• Don't forget to tell your parents the happy news as soon as possible that is if they haven't already guessed. If you are having an engagement party, it would be a good idea to keep your close friends and relatives in the know, too. • An organizer would be best to have handy. This will help you keep track of all the appointments, payments and other activities that you must keep track of. • Have your engagement photo taken. It would be nice to have as a keepsake of this memorable time in your life.

6 to 12 Months in Advance of the Wedding Day

• The couple should have already picked and decided on the wedding date. Make the reservations for the venue where the ceremony and reception is to be held. • Set an appointment with the wedding officiates. • Establish a budget for the wedding, and try as much as possible to stick to it. • Prepare a wedding guest list. You wouldn't want to leave somebody uninvited unintentionally. • Find a photographer, florist, musicians, and a caterer. Obtain estimates for these services. • Register at the bridal gift registry at your favorite stores and at Brides.com. Most places allow you to do this online. • Decide on a wedding dress and accessories to go with it. If you are having a seamstress make you one, this is the time to have it arranged. Several fittings may be required for this. • For the bride, select your bridesmaids. Set a date for ordering dresses for them.

4 to 6 Months Before the Wedding Day

• Have the invitations, stationeries, and thank you notes ordered. • The photographer, florist, musician, and caterer should have already been chosen. Go over details with each of these services to make sure that everything is as agreed upon. • For the groom, select attire. • Honeymoon reservations should be made already at this point. • Confirm the delivery of the bridal gown.

2 Months Before the Wedding Day

• Decide on your rehearsal dinner. • If you are having out-of-town attendants, arrange for their lodging. • Make an appointment with your chosen photographer for the shooting of the bridal portrait. • Order the wedding cake.

1 Month In Advance of the Wedding Day

• The couple should decide on a wedding band set. • Mail the invitations. • Check the attire for the wedding party. • The couple attends showers.

2 Weeks Before the Wedding Day

• Apply for the marriage license and attend to other legal matters, especially for the bride - name and address changes on bank accounts and other official documents. • Plan a wedding hairstyle and make-up with your stylist. • Check with the caterer and the reception venue for last minute changes.

1 Week Before the Wedding Day

• Do your honeymoon packing. • Wrap gifts for the groom and attendants. • Schedule the wedding rehearsal. • Remind the wedding party of the exact time and place for the occasion.

On Your Wedding Day

• Have breakfast! Fainting on the aisle wouldn't be cool. • Get your hair and make-up done. • Shake off all your worries and enjoy your day.

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